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Discipline Is Destiny: The Power of Self-Control

Ryan Holiday, 2022

Why do some people with enormous talent destroy themselves, while others with less of it achieve everything? Ryan Holiday's answer is discipline. Through the stories of baseball player Lou Gehrig, Queen Elizabeth II, boxer Floyd Patterson and the Roman emperors, he shows how to master your body, your character and yourself among other people.

Who it is for

For anyone tired of their own excuses and the endless “I’ll start tomorrow”. And for anyone curious how self-control helped the great people of the past.

You don't always have to be brilliant. But you always have to show up.

The man who tore out the cushions

The New York Yankees win year after year, and the club spoils its stars. In the dugout, the hard bench is swapped for padded seats. Then the team's manager notices one of his stars ripping out a piece of the padding. Lou Gehrig explains: there are cushions in his car, cushions on the chairs at home, cushions everywhere, and he is sick of them. He knew that comfort was the real enemy.

Ryan Holiday's book on self-control begins with Lou Gehrig. It is the second book in his series on the four virtues of Stoicism: courage, temperance, justice and wisdom. Stoicism, in short, is the ancient philosophy of how to master yourself in a world that does not obey you. This book is about temperance, which Holiday calls by a simpler name: discipline.

The main idea is right there in the title. Luck and talent come and go, but how you treat yourself decides what you do with them. That is why discipline predicts destiny. Holiday moves through three circles: the body, the character and, finally, the soul, meaning the ability to be with other people and lead them.

Ahead of you: a baseball player with broken fingers and a writer who worked before dawn. A general who gave an order to himself, and a queen who never had a day off. A boxer after a crushing defeat, and an emperor who turned down a month of the calendar named after him. You opened a book about discipline of your own free will, and that is already a small choice in its favour.

Gehrig heard the same lazy voice in his head as everyone else

Gehrig took the field with a fever and with migraines. He played with a bad back, pulled muscles and sprained ankles. Once a ball travelling at around eighty miles an hour hit him in the head. The next day his head was so swollen that his own cap would not fit, so Gehrig played in Babe Ruth's.

Where did it come from? He grew up in a poor family of German immigrants in New York. His father drank and always found reasons not to go to work. His mother worked as a cook, a laundress and a cleaner. The son was ashamed of his father's excuses, and being reliable became a matter of honour for him: he never missed a single day of school. “I’m a slave to baseball,” Gehrig said. But he chose that slavery himself: nobody forced discipline on him from above.

Holiday stresses that Gehrig was no superman. He heard the same voice in his head that we all hear: you can take it easy today, you're tired anyway, nobody will notice. He simply made a habit of not listening to it. Give in just once, and you are already someone who gives in.

Next to him played Babe Ruth, a star with enormous talent and an equally enormous love of food and drink. Ruth ballooned to nearly 240 pounds. Gehrig did not drink or chase thrills, but he did not think of himself as a saint either. He simply wanted to be a great player and chose the most sensible way to get there. For him, discipline was not a sacrifice but an investment.

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About the author

Ryan Holiday is an American writer whose books on Stoicism have been translated into more than forty languages. He runs the Daily Stoic project and owns a bookstore in Texas.

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Terms from the book

  • Moore
  • Eisenhower
  • Senate
  • Elizabeth
  • Morrison
  • Stoicism
  • Marcus Aurelius
  • Seneca
  • Ruth
  • Temperance
  • Patterson
  • Johansson
  • Yankees: The New York Yankees, a baseball club from New York and one of the most successful teams in the history of American sport.
  • Gehrig: Lou Gehrig (1903 to 1941), American baseball player for the New York Yankees. He played 2,130 games in a row, a record that stood for more than fifty years.
  • Rematch: A second fight between the same opponents, in which the loser tries to win back what he lost.
  • Hadrian: Hadrian (76 to 138), Roman emperor. Shortly before his death he adopted Antoninus and made him his heir.
  • Antoninus: Antoninus Pius (86 to 161), Roman emperor who ruled from 138 to 161. Adoptive father and teacher of Marcus Aurelius.
  • Commodus: Commodus (161 to 192), son of Marcus Aurelius and Roman emperor after him. He became notorious for his cruelty and whims and was killed by conspirators.

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