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Radical Candor

Kim Scott, 2017

A manager praised an underperforming employee for months to avoid hurting him, then fired him and heard, “Why did nobody tell me?” Former Google and Apple leader Kim Scott explains why silence out of pity can be harmful and how to tell difficult truths with care. There is also the story of how Sheryl Sandberg helped her by saying, “You sound stupid.”

Who it is for

For managers, team leaders, and anyone who has to tell people uncomfortable things at work, in a project, or in the family.

Radical candor happens when you combine personal care with demanding standards. It helps build trust and opens the way to a level of communication that allows you to achieve the results you want.

What the book is about

A manager praises an underperforming employee for months to avoid hurting him. Then the manager fires him and hears in reply, “Why did nobody tell me?” Kindness turns out to have cost him more than an honest conversation would have.

Kim Scott led teams at Google, then worked at Apple. In Radical Candor, she describes how to tell people difficult truths while preserving your humanity. Her model requires two things at once: sincerely care about the person and say directly what is wrong.

An important qualification. This is a practitioner’s model, grown from her Silicon Valley experience, rather than a research finding. The framework helps you notice conversational habits but does not measure people or guarantee results.

Idea 1. “It’s not cruel, it’s clear”

Scott tells the story that she says began it all. Her puppy, Belvedere, was spoiled and kept lunging toward a busy street. A stranger nearby said it was obvious she loved her dog very much. But unless she taught the dog to sit, it would die.

Then he bent down and commanded in a firm, loud voice, “Sit!” Scott was astonished. As he left, the man said it was not cruel, it was clear.

In this scene, Scott saw both parts of her future model. The stranger showed he cared and was not afraid to say something uncomfortable.

A friend says, “I want this to work out for you. So I’ll be honest: there are three typos in the first line of your résumé.”

Firmness and care do not have to contradict each other. Sometimes clarity is the most caring form of conversation.

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About the author

Kim Scott is an American executive and author of books on management. She led teams at Google, then worked at Apple, and later advised leaders of technology companies.

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Terms from the book

  • Radical Candor: Kim Scott’s term for a statement combining personal care for someone with a direct discussion of the problem. The author’s model rather than a scientific category.
  • Ruinous Empathy: In Scott’s model, care without directness: not telling someone about a problem to avoid upsetting them. It describes a statement rather than a character.
  • Obnoxious Aggression: In Scott’s model, directness without care: criticism that may sound like an attack or humiliation.
  • Manipulative Insincerity: In Scott’s model, neither care nor directness: pleasant words to someone’s face and criticism behind their back.
  • Superstars: The book’s image for strong employees who want rapid growth and new challenges. A framework for conversation rather than a judgment of personality.
  • Rock stars: The book’s image for strong employees who want to improve in their current roles rather than move up the hierarchy.

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