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Your Money or Your Life: Transforming Your Relationship with Money and Achieving Financial Independence

Vicki Robin, Joe Dominguez, 1992

A Wall Street analyst quits his job at thirty-one and never works for money again. Vicki Robin and Joe Dominguez turned his experience into a nine-step program. The book teaches you to see money as hours of your life, to find your own line of "enough," and to move step by step toward financial independence.

Who it is for

For people who work hard and still never have enough money. And for anyone who wants to know how much they really need to live with peace of mind.

If you live for having it all, what you have is never enough.

Retired at Thirty-One

It is 1969. Joe Dominguez, a stock analyst on Wall Street, quits his job at thirty-one and never works for money again. He did not win the lottery or sell a company. He saved a modest sum, put it into safe bonds and began to live on the interest.

Later he met Vicki Robin, a former actress who was also looking for a way to live more simply. Together they tested his approach on themselves and taught it to others: first in seminars, and from 1986 onward on cassette tapes. The book came out in 1992. Dominguez died in 1997, and Robin kept improving the book. The latest revised edition appeared in 2018.

The book is built as a nine-step program. But it is not about tightening your belt. The authors invite you to look at money in a new way: every dollar once cost you hours of your life, and each of us has only so many of those hours.

Ahead you will learn what your hour is really worth, which three questions to ask of every expense, where the line of "enough" runs, and at what moment working for money becomes a choice rather than a duty.

"Is This All There Is?"

One day a woman came up to the authors and asked: is this all there is? Work and more work, and then retire worn out, with no strength left for anything. Robin and Dominguez heard in her question the voice of a great many people.

Count how much of your life your job really takes. It is not just eight hours at the office. It is the commute there and back, getting ready in the morning, the evening you spend recovering, and the thoughts about work on weekends. We say we are making a living. The authors suggest asking honestly whether we come home from work more alive than we were when we left in the morning. If not, we are making a dying instead.

This leads to the central idea of the book. Money, as the authors define it, is something we choose to trade our life energy for. By life energy they mean the time and effort you give to get money. The supply is limited, and the hours you spend can never be won back.

Seen this way, the question about any purchase changes. Not "how much does it cost," but "how many hours of my life will I give for it." Money gets its true price.

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About the author

Joe Dominguez was a Wall Street stock analyst who retired in 1969 at the age of thirty-one. Vicki Robin, a former actress, ran seminars on money with him and later revised the book for a new edition in 2018.

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Terms from the book

  • Bonds
  • Wall Street
  • Fulfillment curve
  • Financial independence
  • Self-blame
  • Budget
  • Capital
  • Enough: The key word of the book: the peak of the fulfillment curve, where you have the money and things you need for a full life, and everything beyond that is excess. The authors' idea, not a scientific term.
  • Life energy: The authors' idea: the time and effort a person gives to earn money. The supply is limited, so every expense is paid for with a part of your life.
  • Real hourly wage: A calculation from the book: income minus taxes and every work-related expense, divided by all the hours the job actually takes.
  • Clutter: The authors' word for everything that does not serve you but takes up room in your home and your life.
  • Frugality: For the authors, this is not stinginess but the ability to enjoy what you have and get full value from every hour of life you spend.
  • Waste: Spending money or things for nothing. The authors see it not in how many things you own, but in not using or enjoying them.
  • Crossover point: The moment in the authors' program when your monthly income from investments becomes larger than your monthly expenses. On the graph, this is where the two lines cross.
  • Financial cushion: A reserve of money for unexpected costs. The authors suggest keeping enough to cover about six months of expenses.

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